Oh, my God!! Was that a double line? Congratulations!
We know you might not be in the situation to hear congrats, rather you might still be figuring things out, digesting the situation, and thinking about what to do next!
But, hang on, did you share this with someone? If yes, cool! If not, finish reading this blog and rush to inform the ‘father-to-be’, he is an equal participant in the confusion, nervousness, clarity and support, pains, and ultimate joys!
But first, if you are here, listen to what this write-up says, it might just work!
Sit Down, Relax!
It’s a thing to think about, but it’s not unreal. This is a cycle of life and you have reached here. To be truthful, things will change, priorities will change, and life would be different if you continue with it, but you had to be here, someday, right? It is the day, it is the time, it is the moment!
There’s a lot of emotional chaos going on inside, but that’s a part of it! Everything will streamline in the most efficacious way possible! You are here, and you need to be more than grateful.
Take a Retest
The first kit showed positive, but the second test is as important! There are times when kits fail or show errors, and you don’t want to take chances of being misinformed. As you see the result in the first kit, for some time, keep your emotions at bay, and take the second test, just to reassure yourself of the results at home.
Don’t Draw Yourself Towards Conclusions Now
Don’t think of conclusions or come to a decision by yourself! There are people who need to have a part in the decision. The first thing we tend to do is to gradually come to a conclusion, but that isn’t the right way how it’s supposed to happen, right?
You need to go through some confessions, and some estimations, evaluate possibilities, think about impossibilities, talk about them, and then proceed. Whether you are happy and joyous or confused and nervous, keep calm. Everything will eventually unfold in your favour.
Go, Talk About It
Don’t wait anymore, you need to tell this to someone who deserves to know and you better know who the first person beside you should be. If this is what you have been planning, go surprise him, and let him know that it’s happening, finally. If you haven’t been expecting this, hang on, go share it, it’s still the first thing to do.
Find the Best Gynae Around
Should you be figuring everything out yourself? No! It’s also time to seek professional examinations and advice. We don’t want to put water on your happiness, but, get the assurance of the news from an expert. In fact, you must first meet a gynae, get the tests done, and then inform friends and relatives.
So, the first thing you should be doing after talking about it with your partner is to find a good and reputed gynae around. They would be the best ones to suggest the favourable practices you could do as per health and wellness.
Talk It Out Between Yourself
After you have met the gynae and are aware of all the health consciousness and possibilities of pregnancy, it’s time for you to sit and talk. There are a lot of subjects that should be planned first before you proceed towards taking any further steps. How are you going to manage finances, what’s the plan for work, and everything that needs prior consideration? If you have already had it planned before, great, talk about implementing it. If you are nervous because you haven’t planned it, yes, you are late, but still not late enough to not start, do it now!
It is a true fact that life would change, hereon, but it had to! Whether you are happy or confused, just understand that this is the moment of beginning and things will change, whether it is the body or lifestyle! But, from here, you would be entering the next phase of life, so take it ahead with grace and responsibility!
